Showing posts with label healing. Show all posts
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Monday, June 21, 2021

Happy Father's Day - Repost Fr. Andy Upah Homily June 20, 2021

 Homily for Nativity for Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time 6/20/2021 Fathers Day - Fr. Andy


Happy Fathers Day to all fathers, grandfathers, godfathers and spiritual fathers. 


Since it is Father’s Day, and inspired by today’s Gospel, I feel compelled to talk a little bit about being on the boat with my father.  I have many memories in the boat with dad, mostly on the lake, which is really where the Gospel story today took place - the “Sea” of Galilee is actually a big lake which would only rate as the second biggest lake in the state if it were in Iowa.


But some of my earliest memories with my dad were on the river, no, not the Mississippi River but the Iowa River, which near my hometown is a fast flowing river that in no way would be crossable on foot.  We would take our 16 foot flat bottom boat out with a little 25 horsepower motor on it, armed with poles equipped with 20 lb test and a variety of baits, searching for huge, often elusive catfish.


From early on I remember my dad putting the fear of God into me about the river.  He told me there was to be absolutely no messing around, because if I were to go in, there was no way he was coming in after me.  He often joked about the way he swam, he would always say, “I sink to the bottom and run like heck to the shore!”


But it was a dangerous place, the river, that is, it seems from time to time we would hear of people drowning, and when you were on it, you could see the swirls and imagine the undertows that went along with them, that was where we’d always try to find the big cats at. 


I enjoyed being on the boat with my dad… I was always a little nervous though... I respected the power of the river, especially since my dad, who is still the strongest man I know, respected it and took it so seriously himself.  Not even he could control the river.


In many instances in the Bible, water, the sea symbolizes a place of evil forces that only God can control.  By Jesus showing he could control the sea, He showed Himself to have the power of God, and the disciples began to recognize this: “They were filled with great awe and said to one another, “Who then is this whom even wind and sea obey?”


The disciples are learning, through this experience and several more after it (such as driving out demons and raising a girl from the dead), that Jesus is God in their midst and they must trust in Him, that their faith in Him will conquer every fear.  This is a lesson that we must learn ourselves.


How many experiences of God’s presence does it take for us to trust Him fully?  Do we fear the evil in this world that we cannot control?  Do we think that Jesus is in our boat but He is asleep?


St. Augustine suggests that Christ is not asleep in our boat, but rather it is our faith that is asleep. Augustine says, “You are afraid because you are asleep; you are tossed about on the stormy desires raised by the breath of those who tempt you to do evil because your faith is asleep. ‘Your faith is asleep’ means you have forgotten your faith.  To wake Christ means to awaken your faith, to recall what you believe.  Remember your faith; wake Christ within you.  Your faith will immediately [calm] the frightening winds and waves of those who tempt you to do evil.


St. Augustine is dead right, it is our faith, not Jesus, that goes to sleep.  We forget those times when Jesus was really present.  We let our beliefs go, and give in to temptations, we let our faith be lulled to sleep.  


We fear because we do not trust in God as we should.


An example that I see happen almost every year is when I help lead this Kairos retreat for high school juniors.  When they come into it, they are a little afraid.  Many haven’t been living their faith very well, most people lose their faith in middle school, age 13 in fact, according to national studies. 


They might not even realize they’re afraid, they might just think they’re too cool or that this isn’t a good use of their time, but I think more often than not, those feelings are actually rooted in fear.


So, as the retreat leaders, we have to encourage them from the start, Trust The Process. TTP (- it was written in chalk outside the front door of the Nativity for a couple of months after we hosted Kairos here.)  Don’t fear, don’t anticipate, don’t worry, just Trust.


And they do, and you know what happens?  They have amazing experiences of God’s love for them.


Oftentimes, either directly or indirectly, I am asking you to do something, outside of your comfort zone, whether it be to examine your own fears or hesitancies or to come to the church on a Wednesday night for a Holy Hour, or to attend one activity or another, I am encouraging you to do something, in order to move your faith.


I am trying to be like Jesus here in the sense that I’m trying to wake you up, if you are in fact asleep.  Only you know that, but you can tell by your response to my “asks,” to these opportunities and encouragements regarding your faith.


For many of us, our faith goes to sleep, we let fear take control when we should let God, and this goes for my “asks” as well.  Often, we also might not even realize that it’s fear controlling us. It can show up as different excuses. Everyone says they’re too busy to add anything to their calendar. 


I’d like to challenge that idea by suggesting that maybe we’re just afraid to let go of something that keeps us too busy to be with God. What if we offend someone by insisting we go to Mass on Sunday when we are visiting them out of town? What if we let our kids down by not letting them compete in every single sport and thus ruin their childhood? 


What if it’s hard to make the sacrifices that God is asking of me? Even like getting up earlier so that I can go to Mass before work? I believe that it’s actually fear behind these excuses. 


Whenever we are tempted to fear, especially things that are good and Holy, we need to recognize that lack of faith and turn to Jesus, turn to God who calms the storms of our hearts with His abiding love.


As we heard Paul say in our second reading, “The love of Christ impels us.”  His love for us, our love for Him, it impels us to move forward in faith, to keep our own faith awake while encouraging others in theirs.


Paul goes on to say, “[Jesus] indeed died for all, so that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.


Jesus died to save us from our sins.  Saving His disciples on the boat from an evil they couldn’t control was just prefiguring saving them from a greater evil, our sins, which, without forgiveness, would lead us to eternal death.


And since we have been saved, “The love of Christ impels us” or should impel us, to want to bring that salvation to everyone that we know, to awaken their faith.


St. Josemaria Escriva said, “We are urged on by the charity of Christ to take upon our shoulders a part of this task of saving souls.  As a result, we will foster in ourselves a vehement desire to live as co-redeemers with Christ, to save all souls with him.”


Today, many, many people are asleep, simply because they think everyone will be saved.  For a follower of Jesus, this position does not make any sense.  We heard Jesus' question today, ““Why are you terrified? Do you not yet have faith?”


Why is faith necessary if everyone goes to heaven?  What good is hope either?  But Jesus encourages these virtues.  


He says elsewhere, in Matthew chapter 7, “Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the road broad that leads to destruction, and those who enter through it are many. How narrow the gate and constricted the road that leads to life. And those who find it are few.


And later in Matthew 10:28 too He says, "And do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather, be afraid of the one who can destroy both soul and body in Gehenna."


Friends, many people have let their faith fall asleep, and this is what the evil one wants!  We need to help awaken it for them!  I cannot do this on my own, but together we can, that is why we work with Jesus to bring people the Good News of salvation through the forgiveness of our sins.


Just going to Mass when you are on vacation is a powerful witness to others.  Prioritizing Sunday Mass over everything else is a powerful witness to children. We witness the love of Jesus to others oftentimes without saying a thing.


This world is dangerous, like a boat caught in a storm on the sea or in a fast moving river, we cannot control everything, as hard as we try, we need the protection and salvation that comes from Jesus.  


Our responsibility is to first stay alert ourselves, and then to help awaken others to the evil that threatens their souls.  


May God bless and protect us all as we work for the glory of His Kingdom.


Thursday, November 14, 2013

Finding Blessings on the Journey

Women of Faith:

I’m a little late this week because I know that life is a journey and unless I look for the blessings on the journey, getting to the end of the journey will have no meaning. So I have been taking the opportunities of enjoying the blessings as they have been presented.

“Cause what if Your blessings come through raindrops; What if Your healing comes through tears? And what if a thousand sleepless nights; are what it takes to know You're near? What if my greatest disappointments; Or the aching of this life; Is the revealing of a greater thirst; This world can't satisfy? And what if trials of this life; The rain, the storms, the hardest nights; Are Your mercies in disguise?” Blessing by Laura Story

Occasionally life’s circumstances become a gentle reminder to remember to look for the blessings around every turn, especially when it seems as if life isn’t going exactly as planned.

Blessings were found when I spent extra time with my mom after knee replacement surgery. The gift of a mom (who, for most, is their child’s first hero) is often overlooked especially as we get busy with our own lives and families.
Blessings were found, not only for myself but for many around, in renewed friendships with family and friends who shared grief, comfort, and memories at the funerals of those we loved and shared with each other.
Blessings were found as we became reacquainted with friends at chance meetings in “foreign” places.

Blessings were found in the “timeless” enjoyment of children and grandchildren where common frustrations of daily life, laughter of silly occurrences, and a babies babbling could all be shared without interference of the outside world.

Blessings were found in prayers, caring words, and acts of kindness for family and friends who are undergoing sufferings, struggles and family pain and grief—knowing that we could lighten their burden and share their pain made them a blessing for us, and we a blessing for them.
“And one of them, realizing he had been healed, returned, glorifying God in a loud voice; and he fell at the feet of Jesus and thanked him. He was a Samaritan. Jesus said in reply, “Ten were cleansed, were they not? Where are the other nine? Has none but this foreigner returned to give thanks to God?”  Then he said to him, “Stand up and go; your faith has saved you.” Lk 17: 15-19

Each of these struggles, each of these burdens and pains is a blessing in disguise. Will we see the blessings? Do we look for and thank God for the little (and big) things in life that by God’s design are meant to be a blessing?

And do we remember to give thanks as the Samaritan did, or do we walk away as if the gifts we have received were something we deserved?
“None of us lives for oneself, and no one dies for oneself. For if we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord; so then, whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s…. As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bend before me, and every tongue shall give praise to God.” Rom 14: 7-8, 12

Will we be saved by our perseverance in faith? And will we accept the “muck” of our own choices, and the happenings that God allows, so that we are saved because in faith we can find the blessings and enjoy the journey with the knowledge that God is always at our side?
Heavenly Father, It is for your glory that I live. Help everyone who is experiencing some sorrow, some suffering, or some pain, to be able to see beyond, to accept their burdens and their grief and to find comfort in the blessings you are constantly placing in our lives. May I search not for gold, but for the silver lining of your blessings. Thank you for giving me the faith to enjoy the journey. Amen.

Recommit yourself to finding the blessings in the relationships you share. And in taking the opportunity to enjoy the journey with each relationship you are given.
Life is a journey. Be blessed by it!
Charlotte

Monday, September 26, 2011

When Life isn't fair and I want to fix it

Women of Faith:
I texted to a friend this week: “I so want to help, but I know God is the only answer. Pray to forgive, pray to change, and pray to heal.”

I searched for hope and help and I was answered with my favorite prayer: “Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.” (Serenity Prayer)

And I thought: “Life is not fair. I should be able to change or help change more than myself.” So I searched for the wisdom to know “what is life, and what is me.” I searched for why I am not given control and why God is.

And as I pondered “how to help” he put answers in front of me with this week’s readings:

“Thus says the LORD: You say, "The LORD's way is not fair!" ... But if he turns from the wickedness he has committed, he does what is right and just, he shall preserve his life; since he has turned away from all the sins that he has committed, he shall surely live, he shall not die. Ez 18:25-28

“...Do nothing out of selfishness or out of vain glory; rather, humbly regard others as more important than yourselves, each looking out not for his own interests, but also for those of others. Have in you the same attitude that is also in Christ Jesus. Who, though he was in the form of God ... emptied himself, ....he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. ... that at the name of Jesus every knee should bend... Phil 2:1-5


Life isn’t fair and I can’t fix it no matter how much I want to help. I can’t take away the pain or suffering. And it won’t help to worry about a problem that I can’t fix.

I can’t fix someone else’s heartache. I can’t heal someone who is sick. And I can’t fix the corrupt world around me.

I can only change my own reactions and feelings. I can only pray for His healing of others. I can only try to mirror Jesus’ example here on earth: by forgiving more (70x7), serving more, and always loving more—by being completely selfless in each and every part of my day, in each and every relationship in my own life. And hopefully by being a good role model in my own choices—by choosing what would be God’s will.

There is always some part of life that is “not fair.” But I am not given the power to fix it. I am only given the means thru the power of prayer to ask God for His grace, His compassion, and His loving mercy.

And I don’t have any control. I can only pray for His healing, His strength, and His courage so that I can be with Him for all eternity.

My hope, my strength and my courage are in Him, thru Him and for Him.

I can only trust that God will hear my prayers.

Heavenly Father: Your mercy is all powerful. Thank you for giving us Your son to be an example of selfless loving; an example of true compassion thru the mercy of His forgiveness; and an example of what it means to never tire in serving others. Help me to share hope with those who struggle to see you in their pain. Help me to change myself by forgiving others; help me to have the courage to accept what I cannot change and help me to have wisdom, patience and understanding that it is not “my will” but your will that is done. Amen

It is with deep humility and heartfelt caring that I ask God for His blessings in our lives so that we will truly know the Prayer of Serenity,

Charlotte

Monday, September 12, 2011

9/11 Promises Made

Friends in Faith:

Just over ten years ago as the Twin Towers fell in New York City, we counted our blessings, prayed for healing for those directly impacted, took extra time to give our spouses and children an extra tight hug and asked for forgiveness from those we had wronged.

In those moments we looked at each other differently—realizing just how fragile life is; realizing that life is about more than the possessions we accumulate or the trips we take. We appreciated and thanked God for all those we love—our spouses, our children, our parents and siblings, and all the friends we have shared with over the years.

Many of us felt as if God was trying to tell us something. “Remember your last days, set enmity aside; remember death and decay, and cease from sin! Think of the commandments, hate not your neighbor; remember the Most High's covenant, and overlook faults.” 1 Sir 27:30-28:7

We made heartfelt promises—that we would pray more, hug more, be more patient, be more compassionate, and judge less.

We were also reminded of our need to forgive not only those closest to us, but the perpetrators of this devastation. “Peter approached Jesus and asked him, "Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive? As many as seven times?" Jesus answered, "I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.” Mt 18:21-35

So we also promised to forgive more and be more merciful to those who cause us to sacrifice or to suffer. We understood in that moment that this is what Jesus was calling us to do.

But as Deacon Joe said on Sunday, “Change is not about words, change begins in our hearts.” It is about a change in our attitudes and the things we DO, not about the promises we make.

So, how many of these promises have we kept? Did we say it in the moment and after a time forget what we were reminded of in that instant? Did we return to living our lives “status quo” with more time for things than for people?

Did we truly “change our hearts?” Are we doing things differently now because of this moment in history? Are we listening to what God is telling us, living our faith, believing and changing our hearts to conform to His will instead of ours?

Heavenly Father, You are all forgiving, all loving and all merciful. Help me to treat those I love and those I meet in the same loving, merciful, and forgiving manner as You treat me. Thank you for the people in my life that You have blessed me with to serve and to love. May I continue to be reminded that life and those I love are what is truly important. Help me to take the time to pray more, love more, and forgive more. Amen.

May we be blessed in keeping the promises we made on 9-11-01.

Blessings,
Charlotte